What to Say or Do When Parents Abuse Their Children in Public
It can be very difficult to watch the mistreatment of a child by an adult out of control. There are things you can do to help.- Strike
up a conversation with the adult. See if you can redirect
his/her attention away from the child.
"He seems to be trying your patience."
"Looks like your little girl is having a hard time."
"My child used to get upset like that."
- Praise
the child or parent at the first opportunity.
"What a beautiful child you have.
How old is she?"
- Avoid negative remarks or looks. These reactions are more likely to increase the parent’s anger and could make matters worse for the child.
- If the child is in danger, offer your assistance. For example, if the child is left unattended, stand by the child until the parent returns.
- If you have witnessed child abuse, call Child Protective Services or the local Police Department.
